Loving without fear

I didn’t realize until now that I had been loving conditionally – putting conditions on love so that I’d only give my love to someone if they gave it back, did things for me, etc. It’s been a long time since I’ve talked to the one I believed was my “twin” face to face. I…

“Love Yourself First”

One of my good friends always told me when I was complaining about relationship problems and stupid boyfriends that I should “love myself first” and I would just shrug it off and ignore what she said. Now that time has passed and I’ve had my heart broken I really value her statement and fully understand…

Butterfly Wings

I’ve been working hard and adjusting to my new career path. It has been interesting to say the least. It has been a deeply emotional experience as I have been growing and beginning to shed old parts of myself. It’s a painful process to let go. Especially when you feel like certain aspects about yourself…